A lot of people avoid readings because they're scared of being told "what will happen." And actually, that's a really valid fear. The classic stereotype is visiting some purple-robed fortune teller who dramatically announces when you're going to die and you spend the rest of your life worrying about it. Who actually wants that?
Receiving predictions can mess a lot of things up in your life. When you start making decisions based on predictions, it's not necessarily 'wrong,' but it adds a layer of complexity that wasn't there before. I've had experiences with highly regarded psychics where the thing they predicted happened, but not in the way that was expected, and the test became to follow my own intuition. That was hard. I’ve also had a lot of very wrong predictions. Things that sounded plausible but that just messed with my plans. It’s simpler to avoid all that.
Anyway, the future isn't fixed. In terms of timings alone, many timelines are dependent on reaching milestones in your evolution, not the human calendar. The quicker you realise you're stuck in a trauma bond and decide to leave, the quicker something better can come into your life. But you can stay in a trauma bond for the next 10 lifetimes if you want. That's the beauty of the freedom we are given.
Certain futures are more likely given where you're currently at, but as they often say, 'the best way to predict the future is to create it.' We can change it at any moment by making better choices. That’s why it’s sad that the fortune-telling frame is such a common one that most people come in with it anyway, and it makes you passive. You co-create what comes next regardless. A reading gives you information to work with, not a verdict to wait out. You still have to show up for it.
So the welcome news is: no, or at least, it doesn't have to be. You can ask about whatever you want — and if you don't want a timeline, I won’t give you one. The way to get the most out of a reading is to focus on what's in front of you now: what's blocking you, what's being asked of you, what path is open. There's often a clear sense of a suggested direction, and sometimes an associated outcome if you follow it. But it's not a fixed script. It's a map of the terrain, not a prediction of the weather.
There is a paradox here, though. Spirit loves one. There does seem to be a place for destiny in all of this — for genuine prediction, for things that are more fixed than we'd like. How that fits with free will is genuinely complex, and I don't have a clean answer. I do get information about future events — a sense of what's likely to come. But I still think there's choice in it.
What I will say: even a "wrong" prediction might be doing something. We tend to judge a reading by its accuracy, but sometimes the information that comes through is less about being right and more about being useful — a test, a mirror, an obstacle that teaches something. That doesn't mean a sloppy reading is fine. It means the intelligence working through this is bigger than hit or miss.
In magickal circles, using the tarot for divination is frowned upon. It's considered lower than its use as a meditational device for connecting with deeper states of consciousness. Fair enough, I get that. For me, it confirms my own approach: the cards are a means towards the spiritual path, as it expresses through the details of your daily life. That isn’t separate from who you date or which house you buy. And that’s what chimes with the guidance I actually channel.
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